Free Relationship Privacy Contract with Discreetly
Most relationship contract templates cover chores, money and boundaries — and skip the one thing that causes lasting damage when a relationship ends. Discreetly's free agreement covers privacy: what stays between you, in writing, signed by both.
We never see your media
Discreetly stores the agreement only.
Optional ID verification
Names confirmed against government ID.
Signed PDF for both
Timestamped and yours to keep.
Why Sign a Relationship Privacy Contract?
It takes minutes and costs nothing. What it leaves behind is a written, dated record that there was no consent to share.
Focused on what actually hurts
Private photos, messages and video are the material that causes real harm after a breakup. This is the clause worth signing.
Equally binding on both partners
The terms are identical in both directions, so it is a shared commitment rather than a demand.
Survives the relationship
The obligations continue after you separate, which is precisely when they matter most.
Free and quick
Three minutes, two signatures, one PDF each. No cost.
How It Works
Four steps, no drafting, no lawyer, no printer.
- 01
Create the agreement
Enter your full legal name and the other person's. The wording is already written — there is nothing to draft.
- 02
Send the private link
They receive a secure link by email. No account, no app, no sign-up required on their side.
- 03
Both people sign
Each person actively types or draws their legal name. Optionally, Stripe Identity verifies that name against a government ID.
- 04
Download the signed PDF
Once both signatures are in, you both get the same timestamped PDF. It is yours to keep, free.
Get Started — It’s Free
Don't wait until the damage is done. Create your relationship privacy contract, send the link, and have it signed before anything is shared.
Create my agreementNo card required. Identity verification is an optional paid add-on.
Frequently Asked Questions
Is a relationship contract enforceable?
Terms about lifestyle preferences generally are not. A confidentiality obligation between two adults is a far more conventional contractual promise, and is the part of a relationship agreement most likely to carry weight.
Can we sign one years into a relationship?
Yes, and many people do — often when moving in together, or when one partner starts sharing more online.
Is it really free?
Yes. Creating the agreement, inviting the other person, signing it and downloading the signed PDF costs nothing. Identity verification through Stripe Identity is an optional paid add-on if you want each signer's legal name confirmed against a government ID.
Does the other person need an account?
No. They receive a private link, read the agreement, type their full legal name to sign, and that is it. Only the person creating the agreement needs an account.
Discreetly provides a document service, not legal advice. Agreements are governed by the laws of England and Wales. No agreement can prevent someone sharing material or guarantee a legal outcome; it records what was agreed and may be useful evidence if you need to report a breach or bring a claim.